Thanks to 80's rom-coms and Disney fairytales, many of us grew up on the idea of falling in love at first sight. However, this is the real world, and we need to get a second date before we can commit to someone forever. But, how exactly do we secure that second date? Experts recommend not to stress, as worrying about it might actually ruin your chances.
Relationship coach Steve Yang told Bustle that "one of the biggest mistakes people make on a first date is overthinking the entire time." If you are so concerned about getting a second date that you forget to enjoy your first one, the results might not be in your favor. Yang also advises treating your date as less of an interview and more of a discovery — enjoy getting to know the person free of expectations rather than treating it as an audition for the perfect partner.
Once you are relaxed and present, you can showcase your best self and more accurately decide if you even want a second date with this person. Sometimes we are so anxious on the first few dates that we don't recognize the red flags in a potential partner.
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